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FOR SALE | African Print Dress

When you have one body and hundreds of threads, you have to pick your favorites and send the others to a new place they can call home. 

With that being said, I will be giving you – my readers – the opportunity to shop my closet.

Beautiful, off shoulder African print statement dress. Ready to wear – dress it up with your favorite heels, or go casual glam with your choice of pumps.


Flattering knee length design 

Bold African print

Fully lined

Off the shoulder 

Concealed zip

Regular fit – true to size

Hand wash or machine clean only 

The number of Times Worn: Once. 

Size: 10 – 12

Condition: Pristine

You can find the item being sold here.

Happy bidding and buying!


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SOLD | Leather Jacket

A leather jacket is a must have item in any woman’s wardrobe.

This classic jacket, luxurious leather quality with chunky chrome detailing, ticks all the right boxes that make up the elusive leather piece you’ve been looking for but were yet to find.

With that being said, I will be giving you – my readers – the opportunity to shop my closet.

The Buckle Up Biker Jacket will give you the ride of your life. Made from luxe leather with metal hardware detail, this polished jacket is a buy now, wear forever piece. Team with ripped denim and velvet loafers for a rock-chic look.

Size: 10

Condition: Preowned, Pristine condition

You can find the item being sold here.


Happy bidding and buying!



Delicate Balance

You can always trust your family to keep it real it with you. Why do I say this? Well, when I speak to my family we cover many different topics. Politics, religion, current affairs, celebrities, recipes, music you name it we talk about it.

Interestingly one of the things that came up was the lack of posts in recent times on

I knew I had been a bit quiet, but dang, the reality was confronting.

My ego was stroked as people told me to not give up my creative outlet.

The truth is I just haven’t had time – no scratch that I haven’t made time.

I have a backlog of pictures that were taken and blog posts that were written – they just never made their way to the website. I guess my family gave me that extra push to get back to it.

So here we are….

I think it’s worthwhile mentioning that these photos were taken by HPWPhotography – an incredible professional photographer. Hayley will be partnering with me for future blog posts ensuring that my image quality up there with the best of them. Goodbye tripod and begging friends to take photos – welcome Hayley!

Long Sleeved Top – Dotti | African Print Skirt – Chenesai | Heels – Wittner

She Tried It

Natural Deodorant | Does It Work?

How It All Started

I was having a conversation with one of my friends and she let it slip that she wasn’t wearing deodorant anymore. I was shocked and had endless questions.

She went on to explain that she was afraid that the aluminium in deodorant can cause either cancer (breast cancer being the biggest concern) or alzheimer’s disease – which both ran in her family – and she wasn’t willing to risk it. Wow. That took my breath away.

Days later, and intrigued, I picked up the phone to chat to another friend of mine who happens to be doctor. Without naming names we discussed the topic at great length. Her only comment? “A lot of people are choosing aluminium free deodorant or not to wear deodorant at all because people who practice natural medicine are pushing it. However there isn’t enough substantial scientific evidence to back it up”.

I would describe myself as a fairly confident person – but I am not confident enough to go completely without deodorant. So I decided to experiment with natural deodorant for five consecutive days.

Choosing the Natural Deodorant

Its funny how when you are looking for something, it’s suddenly all that you see  – everywhere!

Before doing this experiment – I was completely unaware of how competitive the natural deodorant market was. What was even more shocking was the price points! Prices varied from $10 – $90. Which can really sting (pun intended) especially for something that you’re just going to put under your armpits and keep it moving.

After looking at various options at various prices – I settled on Skin Natural Deodorant.

I mostly picked it because I was grocery shopping one day and randomly saw the deodorant at my local grocery store – Woolworths. That reminded me that I had not yet made a final decision. Also, I thought if it’s stocked at a major super store – you readers can trial out it out too.

How The Natural Deodorant Was Used:

For this experiment I applied the deodorant at 8am each day and put my nose to my armpits at 8pm each night. Sounds weird, but I wanted to make sure that I was judging the product in a consistent manner. “Setting controls”, as my Scientist husband would say.

Five Days Using Natural Deodorant | Breakdown

Day One – You know when you can actually smell yourself and you dread people coming near you because they might just get a whiff? Well..that was me. I had a really active day and this deodorant just didn’t hold up. I am not a sweater – so the smell was really an unwelcome surprise.

Day Two – I didn’t have much on as I spent most of the day in the office and was only really active at the end of the day. On this day my scent was still plain. Plain because there was no smell – just a scent of nothingness. If you are familiar with body odour –  this is a good thing.

Day Three – I had a fairly hectic morning with my toddler and forgot to wear deodorant completely. Funny thing is I was super active. When I remembered that I had not applied deodorant I became paranoid. When  gave myself the sniff test – I was alright – well my nostrils thought so.

Day Four – This was one of the colder days in the month – so I praised myself for choosing this time to test out this product. It was unusually hot in the office so I did have moments of sweating – but overall my scent at the end of the day was pleasant.

Day Five – My underarm skin was getting used to the natural deodorant. My underarm skin was looking smoother – a surprising benefit is that the discoloration seemed to be improving significantly!

Final Thoughts

Obviously since I have invested money in this product I am going to continue using it until it’s finished. If I am honest I have always thought that natural deodorants were for hippies (no offence) but this five day experiment has me convinced otherwise. I wont say I am completely converted but i am open to having it in my personal hygiene arsenal.


Abundance Of Colour

Most days, I don’t sweat the small stuff. Its a waste of my time and energy,

Each morning I feel blessed to wake up, take my first conscious breath and put on my happy face.

I genuinely feel that way probably 90% of the time.

With a toddler, you sometimes have to operate (business as usual) on a VERY limited night of sleep; pretending everything is fine –  by force. With limited sleep it is very easy to feel sorry for yourself.

There is that 10% rearing its ugly head.

For me a fail safe trick to perking up my mood is to wear an ultra bright outfit. Have you ever tried being in a bad mood whilst wearing a bright colour? It is virtually impossible.

On days like this when I walk into the office in an ultra bright print outfit, the conversation in the office goes a little something like this:

Work Colleague: Wow that is some bold colour that you have on there…

Me: Just giving you some loud African print and colour – nothing to see here.

Work Colleague: *chuckles* Have you been given the task of bringing colour to our lives?

Me: I guess so. The pressure is weighing on my shoulders because everyone in this office seems to only wear black, blue and grey. Some sort of aversion or allergy to colour.

With that the conversation dies a natural death.

We all have our own unique coping mechanisms. How do you naturally elevate your mood?


Blazer – Zara | Top – Bonds | Skirt – Custom Made | Stockings – Bonds | Boots – Sportsgirl


Crotchet Life…

This blog post is being written by popular demand.

I literally have had other women of colour stop and ask about my hair. Most have been shocked when I let them know that it was crotchet braids and not my real hair.

Basically this blog posts has been written to explain my crotchet braid process.

Its no surprise that I love big hair. The bigger the hair the closer you are to God. Me myself, I am a natural haired girl – no chemicals can be found on my nappy head. Achieving this look day in and day out would just be too hard as I would be fighting against elements beyond my control.

After extensive research I settled on crotchet braids using hair that could pass as my natural hair.

To achieve this look you’ll need the following things:

  • Hair extensions – I used a random afro braid I found in my hair suitcase.
  • A long bobby pin – You will need to open it at about a 45 degree angle, as this will be you crotchet instrument. You can also use a crotchet hook but I found that it not only painful but also broke my own hair,
  • Scissors – these will allow you to shape and even out the hair.

Step One:
To lay the foundation for you crotchet braids, cornrow your entire head of hair from the forehead to the nape of the neck.

Step Two:
Starting from the back row, insert your bobby pin under your braid line. Grab a piece of your extension and insert the hair in to the loop created by the bobby pin. Once the extension is secure in the loop pull the bobby pin throw the cornrow ensuring that you are holding on to the end of the extension. Using your fingers pull the extension through the loop and tighten – basically doing a knot to secure the hair.

Step Three:
Repeat step two until you have covered all the cornrow braids on you head.

Step Four:
Cut and style to your heart’s content.

By following these four steps you can achieve the look you want for at least three to four weeks.

Now that is satisfaction!

Earrings – Lovisa, Turtle Neck – Zara.

IamTinashe. xx